A lot of people confuse control for concern. There is a huge difference.

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21 Responses to “Beware Of Controlling Relationships ”

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    8:39 pm on August 5th, 2011

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  2. gfreakj
    8:54 pm on August 5th, 2011

    @kllswtchengage31 Thanks for commenting.

  3. kllswtchengage31
    9:15 pm on August 5th, 2011

    so true

  4. taratorah
    10:07 pm on August 5th, 2011

    @JMMH47
    I also agree — only not quite so humbly… ;)

  5. gfreakj
    10:26 pm on August 5th, 2011

    @BeyondLame Anytime the word obsessed gets used there is a problem.

  6. BeyondLame
    10:42 pm on August 5th, 2011

    @gfreakj

    nah it’s all good. he kind of made this girl revolve around him and was obsessed with trying to make things right with her

  7. gfreakj
    11:09 pm on August 5th, 2011

    @DartheRoni I think its part of the learning process. A lot of people dont seem to be learning though.

  8. gfreakj
    11:20 pm on August 5th, 2011

    @JMMH47 I agree with your humble opinion.

  9. gfreakj
    11:32 pm on August 5th, 2011

    @taratorah Indeed.

  10. gfreakj
    11:46 pm on August 5th, 2011

    @bookhound63 Thats normal to me. You’re calling out of concern and wanting to help. There is a fine line with that kind of stuff that a lot of people just dont see. It’s great to hear about people staying married for so long now a days. Very rare. Congrats on sticking together.

  11. gfreakj
    12:41 am on August 6th, 2011

    @suicidekyd Right on.

  12. gfreakj
    1:28 am on August 6th, 2011

    @BeyondLame I’d be happy to if he is actually trying to change. I dont think you meant that seriously. Just sayin…

  13. gfreakj
    2:12 am on August 6th, 2011

    @zookeeper220 I’m sorry to hear that but at least you learned.

  14. gfreakj
    2:41 am on August 6th, 2011

    @suicidekyd I say blame both though most of the responsibility is on the parents.

  15. gfreakj
    3:18 am on August 6th, 2011

    @Bagatronic I agree kids are overwhelmed with sexuality but it ids there parents job to protect them as much as possible. Shield them as long as possible. From my experiences that isnt happening. I understand your point though.

  16. gfreakj
    3:34 am on August 6th, 2011

    @Mauhadeeb28 Probably true but I have to try anyways.

  17. gfreakj
    4:13 am on August 6th, 2011

    @NeptunesTrident I did not do a good job with my point here. I have a few younger friends involved with very controlling people. I was trying to get a message about their situation out without being too specific.
    I agree in general that all those things I described, in and of themselves, are not bad. Its an over all controlling of the relationship and the person that young people need to beware of.

  18. gfreakj
    4:20 am on August 6th, 2011

    @Rebekah7713 I agree it was a bit much. I was much more aggressive at that point in my life…ifg you can imagine that. lol

  19. gfreakj
    4:26 am on August 6th, 2011

    @wTARTZAw Thats a whole other problem. LOL

  20. gfreakj
    5:12 am on August 6th, 2011

    @GreyBones215 LMAO. I’ll ask Lenny if he minds another roommate.

  21. gfreakj
    5:22 am on August 6th, 2011

    @151Neighborhood Thats always possible. It depends on the level on aggression that comes with the questions.

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